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		<title>By: Carolyngail</title>
		<link>http://www.susancohangardens.com/blog/do-what-i-say-not-what-i-do/comment-page-1#comment-1031</link>
		<dc:creator>Carolyngail</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Feb 2010 15:04:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Interesting post and comments, Susan.  When my garden won in the creative category of the Chicago Tribune&#039;s extremely competitive &quot;Glorious Gardens &quot; contest, I thought, hummm..I can do this.  And that&#039;s how I got started with my own small design firm.

I&#039;ve changed my garden many times in the past 40 years and I&#039;m still not entirely happy with it.  As the saying goes : A work of art is never finished, its just abandoned.   I do bring potential clients to see my garden and they love it.   

Although its a  small urban space we have enough room for dining and relaxing and live outdoors most every day that the weather allows.   We have a goldfish pond with a fountain that helps drown out the city noises and a rainchain next to our dining spot that is a delight to both ear and eye.

I believe in practicing what I preach but have fellow designing friends that wouldn&#039;t dare bring clients into their own outdoor space.  Its chocked full of shrubs, trees and flowers of every kind but with no specific scheme in mind .  Either they don&#039;t have the time or inclination to create the garden of their dreams.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting post and comments, Susan.  When my garden won in the creative category of the Chicago Tribune&#8217;s extremely competitive &#8220;Glorious Gardens &#8221; contest, I thought, hummm..I can do this.  And that&#8217;s how I got started with my own small design firm.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve changed my garden many times in the past 40 years and I&#8217;m still not entirely happy with it.  As the saying goes : A work of art is never finished, its just abandoned.   I do bring potential clients to see my garden and they love it.   </p>
<p>Although its a  small urban space we have enough room for dining and relaxing and live outdoors most every day that the weather allows.   We have a goldfish pond with a fountain that helps drown out the city noises and a rainchain next to our dining spot that is a delight to both ear and eye.</p>
<p>I believe in practicing what I preach but have fellow designing friends that wouldn&#8217;t dare bring clients into their own outdoor space.  Its chocked full of shrubs, trees and flowers of every kind but with no specific scheme in mind .  Either they don&#8217;t have the time or inclination to create the garden of their dreams.</p>
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		<title>By: Pam/Digging</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pam/Digging</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Dec 2009 18:35:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m late to the party here, but I enjoyed your post and the excellent comments as well. I recently had the same paralyzed feeling about my front entry, which I was having trouble designing for myself, before I blogged about it. I think there was an element of knowing how many different options and ideas for the space there could be that made me hesitate to settle on one idea. 

I love the idea of throwing that design problem out to readers to see what they say. Even if you don&#039;t use most of the ideas, it gets your creative juices flowing and makes you want to start work on your own space for a change.

&lt;em&gt;You&#039;re not late to the party at all!  What a great idea for true virtual collaboration...we need a garden designer&#039;s throwdown!&lt;/em&gt;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m late to the party here, but I enjoyed your post and the excellent comments as well. I recently had the same paralyzed feeling about my front entry, which I was having trouble designing for myself, before I blogged about it. I think there was an element of knowing how many different options and ideas for the space there could be that made me hesitate to settle on one idea. </p>
<p>I love the idea of throwing that design problem out to readers to see what they say. Even if you don&#8217;t use most of the ideas, it gets your creative juices flowing and makes you want to start work on your own space for a change.</p>
<p><em>You&#8217;re not late to the party at all!  What a great idea for true virtual collaboration&#8230;we need a garden designer&#8217;s throwdown!</em></p>
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		<title>By: Michelle D.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michelle D.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 21:46:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ok,
So I&#039;m going to disagree a bit.
I think that as designers we benefit from the assiduous understanding of  technical constituents but when it comes to the discipline of design I don&#039;t support the role of rules. 
I find that &#039;rules&#039; can limit discovery and stifle innovation.
I know that from reading the introspective responses from other designers at The Blue Planet Blog that my perspective is in the minority.
But I hope that by having an opposing view that a continued dialogue can continue to evolve and spur in depth discussion.

Michelle D.

&lt;em&gt;Interesting perspective and idea.  Rules, guidelines and even an established &#039;philosophy&#039; can so inform design work that they become crutches or cages to be thrown away or broken out of.  I like your idea that rules can stifle innovation.  --S&lt;/em&gt;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok,<br />
So I&#8217;m going to disagree a bit.<br />
I think that as designers we benefit from the assiduous understanding of  technical constituents but when it comes to the discipline of design I don&#8217;t support the role of rules.<br />
I find that &#8216;rules&#8217; can limit discovery and stifle innovation.<br />
I know that from reading the introspective responses from other designers at The Blue Planet Blog that my perspective is in the minority.<br />
But I hope that by having an opposing view that a continued dialogue can continue to evolve and spur in depth discussion.</p>
<p>Michelle D.</p>
<p><em>Interesting perspective and idea.  Rules, guidelines and even an established &#8216;philosophy&#8217; can so inform design work that they become crutches or cages to be thrown away or broken out of.  I like your idea that rules can stifle innovation.  &#8211;S</em></p>
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		<title>By: Shirley Bovshow "EdenMaker"</title>
		<link>http://www.susancohangardens.com/blog/do-what-i-say-not-what-i-do/comment-page-1#comment-785</link>
		<dc:creator>Shirley Bovshow "EdenMaker"</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Dec 2009 00:19:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Willow-
Thanks Willow. You are right, the washed out before photos really emphasize the change. The sad part is, that is exactly what my yard used to look like, dark, no sunshine and dead, dead dead!
Shirley]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Willow-<br />
Thanks Willow. You are right, the washed out before photos really emphasize the change. The sad part is, that is exactly what my yard used to look like, dark, no sunshine and dead, dead dead!<br />
Shirley</p>
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		<title>By: Willow Hill</title>
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		<dc:creator>Willow Hill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 22:20:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Shirley -- that&#039;s quite a transformation!  And I notice you used washed out, nearly B&amp;W photos for the &#039;before&#039; shots -- a graphic &#039;trick&#039; I have also used to highlight the difference.  Very effective!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Shirley &#8212; that&#8217;s quite a transformation!  And I notice you used washed out, nearly B&amp;W photos for the &#8216;before&#8217; shots &#8212; a graphic &#8216;trick&#8217; I have also used to highlight the difference.  Very effective!</p>
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		<title>By: Shirley Bovshow "EdenMaker"</title>
		<link>http://www.susancohangardens.com/blog/do-what-i-say-not-what-i-do/comment-page-1#comment-783</link>
		<dc:creator>Shirley Bovshow "EdenMaker"</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 18:24:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Susan,

I know how it feels not to have a &quot;completed yard&quot; and invest all my energy to create beautiful landscapes for others.

I didn&#039;t design my &quot;dream yard&quot; at home until 4 years ago. I lived in this home for 14 years before I touched the backyard.

I was at a &quot;garden dedication&quot; dinner at one of my clients house enjoying the gorgeous outdoor landscape I created for them. It suddenly occurred to me,
Shirley, why don&#039;t you create something special for your family?&quot;

The next day, the bobcat was in my backyard and my crew started clearing out the old. (mostly lawn and junipers). It took me 4 years to complete as we worked on it mostly on the weekend.

The irony is that at the time, I was taping the &quot;Garden Police&quot; show for Discovery. On the show, my partner, landscape designer, Michael Glassman and I would &quot;bust people&quot; for having ugly yards! My yard was like a scene from a battlefield and I lived with the fear that my producers and viewers would find out what my yard looked like!

Here&#039;s a link to my own yard, Before and After:

http://photobucket.com/ShirleyBovshow

Shirley Bovshow]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Susan,</p>
<p>I know how it feels not to have a &#8220;completed yard&#8221; and invest all my energy to create beautiful landscapes for others.</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t design my &#8220;dream yard&#8221; at home until 4 years ago. I lived in this home for 14 years before I touched the backyard.</p>
<p>I was at a &#8220;garden dedication&#8221; dinner at one of my clients house enjoying the gorgeous outdoor landscape I created for them. It suddenly occurred to me,<br />
Shirley, why don&#8217;t you create something special for your family?&#8221;</p>
<p>The next day, the bobcat was in my backyard and my crew started clearing out the old. (mostly lawn and junipers). It took me 4 years to complete as we worked on it mostly on the weekend.</p>
<p>The irony is that at the time, I was taping the &#8220;Garden Police&#8221; show for Discovery. On the show, my partner, landscape designer, Michael Glassman and I would &#8220;bust people&#8221; for having ugly yards! My yard was like a scene from a battlefield and I lived with the fear that my producers and viewers would find out what my yard looked like!</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a link to my own yard, Before and After:</p>
<p><a href="http://photobucket.com/ShirleyBovshow" rel="nofollow">http://photobucket.com/ShirleyBovshow</a></p>
<p>Shirley Bovshow</p>
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		<title>By: Tarek Rahman</title>
		<link>http://www.susancohangardens.com/blog/do-what-i-say-not-what-i-do/comment-page-1#comment-781</link>
		<dc:creator>Tarek Rahman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 02:56:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Susan your idea is awesome. The  idea is excellent to invite people spare time with his outdoor according to their likings. Some people like  annuals some like to have perennials in their garden with tropical and sub tropical plants, shrubs and bush. I always advise my clients to have a lawn where they can make a family picnic. We have a tropical weather here and in the winter temperature  does not fall down that much. So that the plants do not die or loose his fresheness.

&lt;em&gt;Thank you Tarek.  We all need to spend more time outside.  You are lucky to live in a climate that is warm year round.  Here it can be extremely cold in January and February so it&#039;s even more important.&lt;/em&gt;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Susan your idea is awesome. The  idea is excellent to invite people spare time with his outdoor according to their likings. Some people like  annuals some like to have perennials in their garden with tropical and sub tropical plants, shrubs and bush. I always advise my clients to have a lawn where they can make a family picnic. We have a tropical weather here and in the winter temperature  does not fall down that much. So that the plants do not die or loose his fresheness.</p>
<p><em>Thank you Tarek.  We all need to spend more time outside.  You are lucky to live in a climate that is warm year round.  Here it can be extremely cold in January and February so it&#8217;s even more important.</em></p>
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		<title>By: Willow Hill</title>
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		<dc:creator>Willow Hill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 02:38:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Great series!  I&#039;m rather new to hardscape design, but have been pro gardening for a decade.  I thought I was the only designer who didn&#039;t have the garden of their dreams!  

I have come to appreciate my clients&#039; varied garden styles because I, like you, Susan M, love change.  I really think I could be frustrated if I had a big garden of my own to tend.  Good outdoor living space rocks, however! 

Deep meaning comes through the effort to help people connect -- I love hearing other designers&#039; views on this!  And the designs you&#039;ve used to illustrate are inspiring.  Thanks to all three of you, and to APLD!

&lt;em&gt;Glad you liked it!  I think it&#039;s really interesting to hear what guides others&#039; designs.  Rules are made to be broken after all!&lt;/em&gt;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great series!  I&#8217;m rather new to hardscape design, but have been pro gardening for a decade.  I thought I was the only designer who didn&#8217;t have the garden of their dreams!  </p>
<p>I have come to appreciate my clients&#8217; varied garden styles because I, like you, Susan M, love change.  I really think I could be frustrated if I had a big garden of my own to tend.  Good outdoor living space rocks, however! </p>
<p>Deep meaning comes through the effort to help people connect &#8212; I love hearing other designers&#8217; views on this!  And the designs you&#8217;ve used to illustrate are inspiring.  Thanks to all three of you, and to APLD!</p>
<p><em>Glad you liked it!  I think it&#8217;s really interesting to hear what guides others&#8217; designs.  Rules are made to be broken after all!</em></p>
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		<title>By: Laura Mathews</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laura Mathews</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 00:35:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yes, Laura.  Exactly what I was thinking around the &quot;cobbler&#039;s children&quot; syndrome.  While working as a photographer, my extended family was always annoyed at me for not photographing family events or constantly providing them photos of my family.  Thing is, when the thing you love most becomes your work, work is the last thing you want to do in down time.  With photography, I couldn&#039;t relax and do snapshots.  Once I grabbed a camera, I had to do it right.  Get out the strobes, make sure I had all the right lenses, that kinda thing.

&lt;em&gt;You get right to part of the problem...after spending all day every day in others gardens, working in mine isn&#039;t always appealing.  I&#039;d usually rather do something else in my down time.&lt;/em&gt;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, Laura.  Exactly what I was thinking around the &#8220;cobbler&#8217;s children&#8221; syndrome.  While working as a photographer, my extended family was always annoyed at me for not photographing family events or constantly providing them photos of my family.  Thing is, when the thing you love most becomes your work, work is the last thing you want to do in down time.  With photography, I couldn&#8217;t relax and do snapshots.  Once I grabbed a camera, I had to do it right.  Get out the strobes, make sure I had all the right lenses, that kinda thing.</p>
<p><em>You get right to part of the problem&#8230;after spending all day every day in others gardens, working in mine isn&#8217;t always appealing.  I&#8217;d usually rather do something else in my down time.</em></p>
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		<title>By: Laura Livengood Schaub (InterLeafer)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laura Livengood Schaub (InterLeafer)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 18:17:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I so enjoyed this whole series, what a great idea! I have definitely suffered from the &#039;cobbler&#039;s children&#039; syndrome with my own garden; for one, I could never afford many of the lovely things I design for other people. For another, I have a hard time justifying work on my own landscape, when I &#039;should&#039; be working on something for someone else. It takes a rare convergence of energies for me to create for myself, but when that happens, I take full advantage. So I love and appreciate my hard-won gardens all the more, and marvel that they even exist.

&lt;em&gt;I&#039;m like you, Laura.  When the mood strikes, so do I.  The problem is that adds to the hodgepodge!&lt;/em&gt;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I so enjoyed this whole series, what a great idea! I have definitely suffered from the &#8216;cobbler&#8217;s children&#8217; syndrome with my own garden; for one, I could never afford many of the lovely things I design for other people. For another, I have a hard time justifying work on my own landscape, when I &#8216;should&#8217; be working on something for someone else. It takes a rare convergence of energies for me to create for myself, but when that happens, I take full advantage. So I love and appreciate my hard-won gardens all the more, and marvel that they even exist.</p>
<p><em>I&#8217;m like you, Laura.  When the mood strikes, so do I.  The problem is that adds to the hodgepodge!</em></p>
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